James 3 - Lesson

The Power Of Words

THE POWER OF THE TONGUE

  • “The tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things.” – James 3:5.

Just as large ships are steered by small rutters, and powerful horses are controlled by small bits placed in their mouths, our mouths may be small, but the words that come out of them can have a powerful impact on the lives of others.  

THE DANGER OF WORDS

Has anyone ever said something to you that hurt you so badly that you still remember what they said?

Or the way they made you feel?

Maybe it still hurts?     

Our words are powerful, and if we are not careful, they can leave scars that damage others.  

Our words can be used to praise God, and they can also be used to tear people apart.

James wrote about this in his epistle:

  • “But no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison.  With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the likeness of God; from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way.” – James 3:8-10.

BIBLE VERSES ABOUT THE POWER OF WORDS

The Bible has a lot to say about the power of the words that we speak.  For today’s lesson, we have highlighted the following four verses:

  1. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” - Proverbs 18:21,
  2. “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear.” - Ephesians 4:29,
  3. “There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” - Proverbs 12:18,
  4. “But I tell you that every careless word that people speak, they shall give an accounting for it in the day of judgment.For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” - Mathew 12:36.

OUR WORDS IMPACT OTHERS

What we say matters!

God understands this.

Every time that we interact with another person is an opportunity for us to do four things:

  1. Encourage them,
  2. Serve them,
  3. Show them compassion,
  4. And glorify God.

The opposite is also true.

If we do not choose our words carefully, or say them for the right reasons, they can often be:

  1. Discouraging,
  2. Selfish,
  3. And judgmental.

This does not help anyone. We need to remember that God created us to do two things:

  1. Glorify God,
  2. A nd serve others.

If we act in love and choose our words carefully, we will produce the fruit of the spirit that the Apostle Paul wrote about in his letter to the Galatians.

  • “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things, there is no law.  Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.    If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit.  Let us not become boastful, challenging one another, envying one another.” – Galatians 5:22-26.

CONCLUSION

Although the tongue is small, its ability to impact others is great.   Our words are powerful!   They can build others up, but they can also tear them down.   Therefore, we need to choose our words carefully and make sure they are edifying to those that hear them.     

All of us will give an account to God for the words that we choose to speak.

  • “But I tell you that every careless word that people speak, they shall give an accounting for it in the day of judgment.For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” - Mathew 12:36.

The stronger our faith becomes, the gentler, and more edifying our words should become.  

We will end today’s lesson with the following three thoughts:

  1. "Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless." – Mother Teresa,
  2. “Be kind.   We never know what others are going through.” – Germany Kent,
  3. “By this, all men will know that you are My disciples if you have love for one another.” - John 13:35.    

Comments

Dan W

We can make such a difference in the lives of others by the way we communicate.

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Penny Bourne
Dan W

.Thank you so much for this lesson. I have heard it many times before. I try very hard to speak kindly, to be encouraging and to give wise council and leading when I am asked questions. I do not swear and I try very hard to live for Christ. When I have heard a message as many times as I have heard this one and I still feel challenged, I know that I need to speak to the Spirit. Again tonight that is where I find myself, and not for the first time He reminds me that He has told me before about talking about other people. I have repented of this sin many times and truly turned away. but again I seem to turn back.Please advise me. Christian love and prayers to you all.

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Mike
Penny Bourne

Thank you for sharing Penny. We all struggle with some type of sin. For me, I try to remove the stumbling blocks in my life that I know tempt me by focusing on something else, something positive (Philippians 4:8).

It is a process. Crawl, walk, run. Try to turn away the next time you are tempted to talk about other people. If you can be successful the next time, celebrate that, and then move on to something positive.

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Mike
Penny Bourne

James 4: 11-12:

"Do not speak against one another, brethren. He who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law; but if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge of it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the One who is able to save and to destroy; but who are you who judge your neighbor?"

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